To those who can’t forgive their parents

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To those who can’t forgive their parents

I often see people who are struggling with not being able to forgive their parents.

I think there are many different cases when people say they can’t forgive their parents.

For example, someone who was hurt by a word their parents said to them long ago and it stuck with them for a long time and they can’t forgive it.

People who say they can’t forgive their parents because their parents didn’t help them at all when they were in trouble. I think there are a lot of different cases.

Relationships and connections between parents and children are not created by chance.

In most cases, there is a connection from a past life, and this time we have become a parent and child.

Even parents aren’t perfect

Parents themselves are, in a sense, developing beings, living in the same time as you. There is no such thing as a perfect parent.

So, the first thing to do is to understand that you and your parents are learning together.
Parents and children are certainly related from the perspective of the soul, but they have their own separate walks. Each soul has a different personality and a different agenda.

Parents are learning as children of God, and you are learning as children of God too. In the midst of all this, they were born as parents and children in this life for a while, each living their own life and learning their souls.

When you are able to recognize each other as such, you can see the clues to forgive your parents.

Even parents are immature in some ways

In other words, that your parents are also children of God, just like you, and are not perfect human beings. They can make mistakes, and they are still in their infancy.

If so, can you be sure that you won’t make the same mistake when you’re in the opposite position? I don’t think it is possible to say that.This is because you are not perfect yourself.
This is because you are not perfect yourself.

When you feel that way, you begin to feel able to forgive your parents.
It’s also hard for you to forgive your parents. No matter how long it takes, the pain continues. It’s not that it hurts that your parents did this to you, it’s that it hurts that you continue to have unforgivable thoughts.

This is because we are made of love. If you have thoughts that are contrary to love, you will suffer. Love is a forgiving thought. If you can have it, the pain will go away.

What a parent has done comes back to the parent themselves

It’s easy to blame a parent for something they’ve done.

Of course, parents have to take responsibility for what they have done. Within the Law of Cause and Effect, we have to take on the consequences ourselves.

To put it another way, if you have caused great suffering to your child, that suffering will eventually come back to you as a reaction.

Admittedly, it may not be easy to forgive a parent for what they did. But then the parents themselves are suffering. The parents themselves are suffering and distressed because they don’t know what to do.

It’s also important to reflect on that.

To learn and realize from that time

And I think that when time passes until we can look back objectively, learning and realizing from those times can be another catalyst for forgiving parents.

In other words, there is a reason why a parent did that. It’s not just your parents that are the cause of the problem, but you may have also been the cause of the problem yourself.

When you look at it calmly and objectively, you begin to see the points where you’ve both been immature.When that learning and awareness comes out in you, you will be able to look at each other positively and say, “We’re still inexperienced.”

When you feel that way, in a real sense, you are able to heal your wounds and forgive your parents.

Two things to learn to forgive your parents

This time, for those of you who can’t forgive your parents, I’ve shared two things you can do to be able to forgive them.

The first is that parents are not perfect either, but they are on the same developing path as you.

Secondly, by learning and realizing for yourself from those times, it can lead you to forgive your parents. Be reminded that the parents themselves were also suffering.

In this article, I would like to tell you about these two things.